Ask, Seek, Knock.

It has been said that we should pray as if everything depended upon the Lord and then get up and work as if everything depends upon ourselves.

How do I pray? Do I expect to ask God to give me things? Afterall, we have been promised, "Ask and it shall be given unto you; seek, and ye shall find; knock and it shall be opened unto you." These statements can be found in the New Testament in Luke 11, and Matthew 7, in the Book of Mormon 3 Nephi 14, and in the Doctrine and Covenants Section 4. 

Notice the action words! Ask. Seek. Knock. 

As I read Ether 6:4 (And it came to pass that when they had prepared all manner of ^afood, that thereby they might subsist upon the water, and also food for their flocks and herds, and ^bwhatsoever beast or animal or fowl that they should carry with them—and it came to pass that when they had done all these things they got aboard of their vessels or barges, and set forth into the sea, commending themselves unto the Lord their God.) my mind is alive with thoughts. I recognize many important lessons that I can learn from this account.

The brother of Jared had recently molten stones out of rock that the Lord willingly touched in order for the people to have light in their ships, but it didn't just happen. Time, thought, hard work, humility and faith were all part of the process.

• The brother of Jared didn't just find a pile of clear stones. He asked God in prayer what they should do so they wouldn't have to travel in darkness.
• Jesus answered by asking for a suggestion: "What will ye that I should do that ye may have light in your vessels?" Ether 2:23  
• After he worked to acquire these clear stones he prayed again. So humble and meek in the way he presented them, proposing that the Lord could touch them and by His power they would give light. 

Now, back to chapter 6. This group of faithful followers of Jesus Christ left the Tower of Babel and have been guided to a wilderness by the sea where they have lived for four years. The Lord has told them by revelation that He will take them to a promised land. But

• He doesn't do everything for them. 
• They are expected to gather and prepare food
• Gather animals; flocks and herds to take with them.
• They brought bees! 
• They find and gather food for the animals.
• The build the ships. 
• They have families with babies and children who need all of the special care children require.

My thoughts go to Noah in Genesis 7. 

• He built the Ark- a huge ship that must carry his family and MANY animals.
• He worked hard to teach the people- who mocked him.
• He had a family
• Animals. He must have searched and worked and prayed in order to find and be certain that he had found all of the animals the Lord required him to bring. Yes, of course I believe that God could guide the animals to Noah. And that possibly happened to an extent. But, we know that The Lord usually expects us to work and gain experience. 

And how about the "Fowls of the Air"? Even the birds who are provided for have to work.

• Matthew 6:26 Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they? 
• The Lord feeds them, but...
• They get up early
• They search for what they need.

God loves us in a way we cannot comprehend. He wants us to have all that he has. He desires and has promised that He will open, find and give ALL. 

How valuable, though, is an answer if we don't know the question? If a child didn't ask what is two plus two, does four mean anything to them? 

Our questions are important to our Heavenly Father. How wonderful that we have scripture, personal revelation, a living prophet and apostles to guide us in finding the answers we seek. We can even ask Him what questions to ask. A few times I have received answers to my prayers while I'm praying, but more often the answers come later. The answers come while I read the scriptures, while I listen to the prophet speak or a talk from general conference. Most often, the answers come while I think about them, after I've read, listened to or studied. Sometimes the wait is long but waiting on the Lord is also an action word!

Nephi's Bow Breaks

1 Nephi 16

Lehi and his family are still traveling in the wilderness. They've been walking for a long time and their journey is difficult. All of the other bows have lost their spring and Nephi's bow breaks. They are unsure of how they will be able to feed their families and the group is overcome with discouragement. 

Everyone is obviously very worried. They are all complaining and placing the blame on Nephi. I can imagine Nephi being just as worried as the others but facing it a little differently. I picture him praying about the dilemma, maybe something like this, "Dear Heavenly Father, thank Thee for taking care of us in the wilderness all this time. We have a problem right now. None of our bows are working and our families are hungry. Please help me know what I can do in order to get food for our families."

And then he might have had an idea that didn't feel spiritual, it just felt like an idea. So he went into the forest and found some branches. one for a bow and one for an arrow. He put them together and then asked his father where he should go to find food.

I used to wonder if Nephi was being a little proud by taking his bow to his father. But my thoughts have changed. If I were in this situation, I might have been a little embarrassed of my homemade bow and arrow, wondering if it worked well enough to kill an animal. Is it dorky for me to think this will work? But he knows that his Father Lehi is a prophet and can receive revelation from God for the whole family. I believe that may have taken more humility than I ever considered before.

Then I thought of things from Lehi's point of view, as a parent and a leader. His son is trying to fix a pretty bad situation with his family. He's doing something that maybe I as a parent should be doing myself. I think I would be humbled and maybe even a little embarrassed by this.

I'm sure Lehi went to the Lord with a lot of humility to ask for direction for where Nephi should go to hunt. And also for forgiveness for my negativity, complaining, and pride.

I'm absolutely certain that Nephi was just as concerned and upset by the dire situation they were in as the others were. But he tried to do something about it and with the help of the Lord he was able to make a difference.

I hope that instead of complaining, criticizing, and blaming, I will get on my knees and ask, "What can I do to help this situation?"

Traveling Jewelry Kit

My youngest is about to serve a mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints and she wanted to find a way to take her jewelry with her in a way that will keep it nice and untangled. Years ago my older daughter made me a kit to put things in and it inspired us to make something similar for Denise's small things.

We use this one as a knitting travel kit.

It holds needles and other small tools needed for knitting.

 This is what we came up with for jewelry.

With button/ribbon closure

Earrings in flannel and rings and necklaces in zipbags.

A silk envelope for anything special.

snap enclosure (velcro will work well here but we were concerned about the silk with velro)

Doctrine, Principles and Application

Mike and I have recently been talking a lot about Doctrine, Principles and Application. It is such an interesting topic and helps with all kinds of Gospel study and understanding the scriptures. I love to study these things and I remembered at one time seeing a very succinct definition of each of them and have been searching for these definitions.

I finally thought to ask my gospel scholar sister what her thoughts were on the topic. Of course she had something and it is exactly what I was looking for. It has perfect definitions from Elder David A. Bednar of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles.

DOCTRINES, PRINCIPLES, AND APPLICATIONS

A FRAMEWORK FOR GOSPEL LEARNING

From Elder David E. Bednar, “Increase in Learning”, Deseret Book, 2011; “Act in Doctrine”, Deseret Book, 2012; and “Teach Them to Understand”, Ricks College Education Week, June 4, 1998.

Using the Framework:
“The framework of doctrines, principles, and applications is a flexible tool that can be used to enhance our gospel learning. Please do not view and use the framework as a rigid set of definitions or as a formula that leads to “correct” answers about which applications and principles are associated with particular gospel doctrines. No definitive list exists that correctly identifies and classifies all gospel doctrines and principles. The purpose of the framework is for you to explore, to experiment, and to exercise faith in the Lord as you learn for yourself “the doctrine of the kingdom” (Doctrine and Covenants 88:77) and come to “know of the true points of [the Savior’s] doctrine” (3 Nephi 21:6) by asking questions and searching for answers.”

• Doctrines: “A gospel doctrine is a truth of salvation revealed by a loving Heavenly Father. Gospel doctrines are eternal, do not change, and pertain to the eternal progression and exaltation of Heavenly Father’s sons and daughters. Gospel doctrines answer the question of “why?” For example, the doctrine of the plan of happiness answers the question of why we are here upon the earth. Basic gospel doctrines are the spiritual foundation for all that we learn, teach, and do—and a vital source of power and strength as we strive to become what the Lord would have us become.”

• Principles: “A gospel principle is a doctrinally-based guideline for the righteous exercise of moral agency. Principles provide direction. Correct principles always are based upon and arise from doctrines, do not change, and answer the question of “what?” Many principles can grow out of and be associated with a single doctrine. For example, the doctrine of the plan of happiness gives rise to such principles as obedience, service, and progression. A principle is not a behavior or a specific action. Rather, principles provide basic guidelines for behavior and action.”

• Applications: “Applications are the actual behaviors, action steps, practices, or procedures by which gospel doctrines and principles are enacted in our lives. Whereas doctrines and principles do not change, applications appropriately can vary according to needs and circumstances. Applications answer the question of “how?””
“Our tendency as members of the Church is to focus on applications. But as we learn to ask ourselves, “What doctrines and principles, if understood, would help with this challenge?” we come to realize that the answers always are in the doctrines and principles of the gospel.”

I will Go and Do

1 Nephi 3-4

Nephi has just been praying and received his own verification from God that this journey is right and that his father is a prophet when he returns and receives a new assignment from his father.

He and his brothers must return to Jerusalem and get the brass plates from Laban, the keeper of the records. These plates are like a metal book and contain a history of Lehi's family going back to Adam. 

Nephi says he will do what the Lord asks because he knows that whatever the Lord asks of us He will also prepare a way for our success, so that we can accomplish what He wants us to do. Nephi and his brothers try three different methods of getting the plates from Laban, learning that even when God asks us to do something, He won't necessarily make it easy for us. Sometimes there are things we must learn and experiences we need in order to have the courage and faith to do whatever is required. 

After two failures Nephi's brothers want to give up. It's just too hard, maybe even impossible they think. Complaining that Laban can command an army of fifty and slay them. Nephi's faith here is something to be sought after. He says, "Let us be faithful in keeping the commandments of the Lord; for behold he is mightier than all the earth, then why not mightier than Laban and his fifty, yea, or even than his tens of thousands?"

He quotes scripture to them about Moses escaping the Egyptian army. Moses and the children of Israel escape on dry ground, but the armies of Pharoah were drowned in the waters of the Red Sea. Sometimes the Lord slayeth the wicked to bring forth his righteous purposes.

Nephi was guided to Laban and after being required to kill him he was able to get the plates with the help of Laban's servant Zoram. Zoram was afraid but when Nephi gave an oath that he would be safe, Zoram trusted him and gave his own oath that he would come along.

An oath was enough. Are we as good as our word? 

"I Nephi, having been born of goodly parents..."

1 Nephi 1-2

If you have ever read the Book of Mormon you are likely familiar with those eight words written by Nephi in about 600 B.C.. They are the first words of chapter one.

Follow this link 1 Nephi 1 to read it yourself on lds.org the official website of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.

Lehi went to the Lord in prayer showing us how to pray. In verse 5 we see that he was praying in behalf of his people and then after seeing a glorious vision in which he sees both God the Father and His son Jesus Christ he teaches us even further by rejoicing in the grandeur of Almighty God. Do we sometimes forget how great and marvelous the Lord is, do we forget his power and goodness. To hear Lehi praising God and recognizing his glory is a good reminder for me when I pray.

In chapter 2 when Lehi is directed by the Lord to take his family and leave Jerusalem; he is obedient immediately and takes his family into the wilderness. They leave everything except what they can use on the journey. And Go. I hope that when the Lord asks me to do something I will not question and just go.

I have often tried to picture myself in this situation and I think, "sure, I would go." And then I find myself questioning or complaining about a calling or assignment I'm given in my ward or stake. If I think I will do the big hard things then I better show myself and God that I will do the small hard things.

The small things add up. Sister Kelly Ann Eyring wife of current president of BYUI recently spoke at a devotional there. She talked about a man who decided that he wouldn't only pick up the pennies and other change he found on the ground but he would keep an accounting of them. Over the course of several years, he had collected thousands of dollars found on the ground as lost change.

How many blessings will we recognize in our lives if we start writing down the times we respond to a prompting, fill an assignment or otherwise follow the guidance of the Lord willingly?

Nephi sought verification from God as he followed his father and received his own inspiration through the Holy Spirit. He wasn't questioning or doubting his father, he was seeking his own confirmation and because of his faith he was given what he sought.

I want to detour here for a minute and remember that it's important and even encouraged for us to receive our own confirmation of things we are asked to do by our leaders. There are two things I am certain of:
1. Our leaders are called of God and they can and do receive revelation and inspiration about the callings and assignments they ask us to fill.
2. We have the right and privilege to receive our own inspiration, revelation and confirmation about the callings and assignments we are given.

A few days into their journey, Lehi stops to build an alter and thank the Lord. Even in the midst of my trials I can stop and thank God, knowing that whatever it is I am going through, He will help me through it and make me stronger because of it.

Daily Study of The Book of Mormon

President Russell M. Nelson Prophet and President of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints has challenged the women of the church to set a goal to read the Book of Mormon, Another Testament of Jesus Christ cover to cover by the end of the year 2018.

I normally read one chapter of the Book of Mormon every day but it tends to be at the end of the day without much effort. It's time for me to take the Prophet's challenge and really study this wonderful book of scripture. 

I hope you'll join me each day in not only learning about an historic group of people who left their home in Jerusalem because of religious persecution and became two great nations in a land of promise, but also in building your testimony of the Savior Jesus Christ. Almost every page of The Book of Mormon testifies and teaches of Jesus Christ, Son of God and Redeemer of the world. 

Like the Bible this book is scripture and when reading scripture with a prayer in your heart you will receive promptings from the Lord through the power of the Holy Ghost.  

I love The Book of Mormon, I have read it many times and each time I spend time really studying in this book I learn something; about the Lord Jesus Christ, about myself, and about how to face my own challenges and life experiences. 

Homemade Yogurt

The Cyclist loves to create good things in the kitchen and his most recent discovery is Homemade Yogurt. He ran into it while reading some of his favorite blogs and so we tried this recipe from Loving the Bike .com.

It is amazingly simple to make and we love it so much we make it every few days when the threat of running out rears its nasty head.

Ingredients:
1/4 cup plain yogurt
32 ounces milk (4 cups~ we use nonfat, but any will work)

Supplies needed:
Saucepan
Candy Thermometer
Big bowl of ice
Glass Jars with lids
Oven preheated to 110 degrees or Slow Cooker preheated at "Keep Warm" or "low"

Measure 32 oz. milk into saucepan. Using a candy thermometer, bring milk up to 185 degrees and keep it there for 15 minutes (stir constantly and be careful not to let it boil-over). In the meantime, fill a large bowl (bigger than the saucepan) with ice. After the milk has been at 185 degrees for enough time, set the saucepan in the bowl of ice to begin cooling it quickly. Cool it down to 100-110 deg F. Place ¼ cup yogurt starter in a clean bowl. Once milk has cooled, pour ~1 cup into the bowl with the starter. Mix well (with whisk). Pour mixture back into the saucepan and mix all milk/yogurt well. Pour into small jars, leave in the large pot or pour into your slow cooker. Place in or on heating source – if in slow cooker or oven, turn off and cover or close.

Allow to ferment 24-29 hours. Then, refrigerate ~4-8 hours. Done.

For a thicker or Greek-style yogurt, strain in a coffee filter or paper towel over a strainer for a 1-2 hours. (I tried this once and it was messy and didn't seem to make that much difference.)

We like to eat it with a little jam and granola mixed in. I should add that I didn't really like yogurt before and I really love this stuff.

Try it!

Lead Kindly Light

I saw this on Facebook today and was so touched I wanted to share it. 

God Bless the children. 

 

Twas' 11 days before Christmas, around 9:38
when 20 beautiful children stormed through heaven's gate.
their smiles were contagious, their laughter filled the air.

they could hardly believe all the beauty they saw there.
they were filled with such joy, they didn't know what to say.
they remembered nothing of what had happened earlier that day.
"where are we?" asked a little girl, as quiet as a mouse.
"this is heaven." declared a small boy. 

"we're spending Christmas at God's house."
when what to their wondering eyes did appear,
but Jesus, their savior, the children gathered near.
He looked at them and smiled, and they smiled just the same.
then He opened His arms and He called them by name.
and in that moment was joy, that only heaven can bring
those children all flew into the arms of their King
and as they lingered in the warmth of His embrace,
one small girl turned and looked at Jesus' face.
and as if He could read all the questions she had
He gently whispered to her, "I'll take care of mom and dad."
then He looked down on earth, the world far below
He saw all of the hurt, the sorrow, and woe
then He closed His eyes and He outstretched His hand,
"Let My power and presence re-enter this land!"
"may this country be delivered from the hands of fools"
"I'm taking back my nation. I'm taking back my schools!"
then He and the children stood up without a sound.
"come now my children, let me show you around."
excitement filled the space, some skipped and some ran.
all displaying enthusiasm that only a small child can.
and i heard Him proclaim as He walked out of sight,
"in the midst of this darkness, I AM STILL THE LIGHT."

Written by Cameo Smith, Mt. Wolf, PA

Lead, kindly Light, amid the encircling gloom, lead Thou me on!
The night is dark, and I am far from home; lead Thou me on!
Keep Thou my feet; 
I do not ask to see the distant scene; 
one step enough for me.

I was not ever thus, nor prayed that 
Thou shouldst lead me on;
I loved to choose and see my path; 
but now lead Thou me on!
I loved the garish day, and, spite of fears,
Pride ruled my will. 
Remember not past years!

So long Thy power hath blest me, 
sure it still will lead me on.
O’er moor and fen, o’er crag and torrent, till the night is gone,
And with the morn those angel faces smile, which I
Have loved long since, and lost awhile!

Meantime, along the narrow rugged path, thyself hast trod,
Lead, Savior, lead me home in childlike faith, home to my God.
To rest forever after earthly strife
In the calm light of everlasting life.

Chinese Steamed Buns

As you well know the Cyclist and I love dim sum. Whether its at Pike Place Market or British Columbia we are willing to make a road trip for the best Chinese food. I can be sort of adventurous at a good dim sum restaurant but my meal is never complete until I have had Hum Bao! Apparently better known as Baozi or Char Siu Bao, it's a steamed bread bun filled with a sweet pork filling. Delightful.

For years we have thought about getting a rice steamer but never have. Well this Christmas I found one under the tree from my man. It's great for rice and has a nice little steamer basket to slip on top so adding a few vegis in the last few minutes is a great bonus.

But the biggest selling point for the Cyclist was the possibility of making our very own Hum Bao. I have yet to take the time to make a real Chinese pork filling but what we have tried has been awesome! The day after Christmas we filled them with some pre-made pulled pork we found at Grocery Outlet and the day after that we filled them with pizza fixings (this was the Cyclist favorite and the kids deep fried theirs. ~Beaner claims everything is better deep fried). You can be as creative as you want... I do plan on putting some time in and making the real thing but I keep thinking of other things I can try like... Apple, Peach or Cherry Pie Filling.

Until then I will give you the recipe for the dough and how to shape the bun.

I searched the internet and found several recipes for making steamed buns and finally chose to use this one from All Recipes . com courtesy of Michelle Che

Chinese Pork Buns (Char Siu Bao or Baozi)

• 6 cups all-purpose flour
• 1/4 cup white sugar
• 1 3/4 cups warm water (110 degrees F/45 degrees C)
• 1 tablespoon active dry yeast
• 1 tablespoon baking powder
• 2 tablespoons shortening

Directions

1. Dissolve 1/4 cup sugar in 1 3/4 cups warm water, and then add the yeast. Let stand for 10 minutes, or until mixture is frothy. Sift the flour and baking powder into a large bowl. Stir in 2 tablespoons shortening and the yeast mixture; mix well.
2. Knead the dough until smooth and elastic. Place the dough in a greased bowl, and cover it with a sheet of cling wrap. Let the dough rise in a warm place for about 2 hours, or until it has tripled in bulk.
3. Remove the dough from the bowl, and knead it on a lightly floured surface until it is smooth and elastic. Roll the dough into a long roll, and divide it into 24 pieces. Flatten each piece with the palm of the hand to form a thin circle. The center of the circle should be thicker than the edge. Place one portion of the pork filling in the center of each dough circle. Wrap the dough to enclose the filling. Pinch edges to form the bun. Let the buns stand for 10 minutes.
4. Steam buns for 12 minutes. Serve.

The shaping is a little tricky so once again I sought direction from the Internet... You tube... the best source for anything "how to"... this one is good starting at minute 4:55. She gives good step by step directions for folding the dough. The rest is her directions for making the filling.

Have fun with this!

Important Documentation

Blue Sky

It's still there
(after an extensive game of hiding)
and I feel great hope that it will return again!

Blue sky

I Heart Teenagers!

What do you get when you add 10 years to the craziness of toddlers?

A house full of big eaters, laughter, friends, homework, high emotion, highschool and middleschool, loud music, facebook, texting, people who find ways to make almost anything fun, intelligent conversation, more laughing, a few tears...
And so much joy you think you might explode.
Today I'm thankful for my teenagers (one almost)
AND their friends!

Do you love to clean?

I don't. I love a clean house but the process of getting it there, not so much.

I'm also kind of a cleaning slob. If I wore an article of clothing to clean in, there is a good chance said clothing will have a bleach spot somewhere. Yes. I have sweatshirts, t-shirts, jeans and sweats all sporting white and/or miscolored spots enhancing their look. (Also, anything I have ever painted in: total history)

Today I had my first experience in Green Cleaning. Somewhere in my travels on the information superhighway I ran into a blog by the Green Cleaning Coach Leslie Reichert. She also has a book called The Joy of Green Cleaning that I got for just a few dollars on Kindle.

With just a little lemon juice, vinegar and Borax I got rid of the grime and pink mildew that seem to appear in my bathroom the day after I clean. And... even though I (of course) got some on my shirt, it washed right out!
Check out her blog and cough up a few bucks for the book, it's worth it. Who knows I might actually remove all cleaning chemicals from my house!

And, it might just prove to be the saving grace for my wardrobe!

Valentines Day

Shopping for a Delicious Valentine Dinner
with my boy.

Sunday Naps

With Church at 9am, one of our favorite Sunday family activities is an afternoon nap!

Cinnamon Biscuits

I came downstairs for my bowl of granola this morning, preparing for my (indoor) bike ride. (it's cold, windy and rainy today. nuf said)

Turning the corner into the kitchen I heard the familiar sounds of Saturday morning TV. Danger looked at me in her sweetest, "Aren't you happy to see me?" face and said, "Since we're all up and cheerful, will you make us breakfast?"

How can a mother say no to that. But, I had fitness plans that I knew if delayed would end up replaced. So, an hour or so later I returned for their order. The unanimous choice was Cinnamon Biscuits.
In order for you to also be a Super Mom and be prepared for next Saturday. Here's the shopping list:

Pillsbury canned biscuits
Butter or Margarine
Sugar
Cinnamon

Place 1/2 to 1 cube (depending on how gooey you like it) butter in 9x13 pan and place in oven. Turn oven on and set at 350. The butter will melt while the oven preheats and while you prepare the biscuits.

Open the biscuits and carefully tear each in half. I don't mean for you to take a full moon and make two halves. I mean for you to tear it down the center so you now have two full moons that are just a little skinnier. Today I didn't have any Pillsbury in the fridge so I quickly whipped up a batch of Easy Dinner Rolls and made them about half size.

When the butter is melted, remove pan from oven and sprinkle in enough sugar to soak up the butter. Then sprinkle with cinnamon. These amounts are undefined. In other words, I have no idea how much to add. Enough to make a nice goo that tastes yummy. Then add a teaspoon or two of water and stir around the bottom of your pan.

Lay one biscuit at a time into the goo and flip over so both sides are good and gooey then line up in rows in the pan. Bake according to directions on biscuit package - about 10-15 minutes.

Serve with milk.Return to bike and ride for another hour.

We love Fridays!

February 11, 2011
Fridays are good for hanging out, chillin and being glad there's no school manana.
And... today we spent the afternoon anxiously awaiting a call from our cousin to find out where he's going on his mission.
2 years teaching the Gospel of Jesus Christ,
Somewhere out there, anywhere in the world!
Finally, at 8pm the envelope was opened...
Kobe, Japan
Wahoo
We're so excited for A. He'll be a great missionary!

Great News for Danger

February 10, 2011

Danger is growing up {sniff, sniff}
This morning Cycle Guy and I found an email for her.

We were so excited that we called the school so they could pass on the good news.

Tonight the family took her out for dinner to celebrate. After being seated we all removed our jackets to display our shirts.
For Christmas 2009 Danger made us all matching shirts with her head on Superman's body.
To her dismay, we like to wear them at the same time.

February 9, 2011

Ready for an interview with the newspaper for

The Strawberry Festival Pageant

February 8, 2011

Cover Orange.
Dude, I can't beat this level.