It's a great day to gather at The Blog Cafe!
It's like a group of friends old and new gathering at a favorite place for food and fun.
Today we're meeting virtually at Cristiano's Pizza Etc. in my hometown.

Originally, Cristiano's was a cozy little bistro serving incredible salads and delicious pizza. It has long been a favorite lunch spot of mine. The first time I took Cycle Guy there, he looked around wondering what I was doing to him. The term "other fish in the sea" suddenly lost all meaning as he began to drown in a sea of women. Business lunches, friends out for soup and salad, and young mom's with preschoolers in tow filled the restaurant.
Things have changed, for the better. Cristiano's has doubled their space, still a cozy bistro just bigger. Even then you can expect it to be crowded. It's that good. And... there are as many men gathering now as women. We just couldn't keep our secret any longer. Oh you'll still see friends out for a chat with toddlers in tow but the male crowd is as great as the female one now. It's just that good.
Today we'll start with some of my favorite,

The deep fried cheese ravioli appetizer.
It comes with a pesto asiago dipping sauce and chunky marinara.
And while we wait for our salad and pizza, we can visit and color.

When you bring kids with you they automatically put paper on the table and bring you crayons, but all you have to do is ask and you can get them even without the little ones.
The salads at Cristiano's are their premier dish.
They are huge and chock full of goodness.

Look at all that cheese!
This is the Mediterranean Salad with Feta cheese and Greek dressing.
The bread sticks are chewy in the middle, with a crunchy Parmesan crust... fabulous.

This is the Caesar Salad loaded with Parmesan Cheese.
It's your choice... dressing on the side or tossed in, grilled chicken or no.
Then there's the pizza...

Real cheese, stretchy and hot, covering a thick chewy crust and whatever other toppings you choose.
I reserved a virtual table at Cristiano's ALL day and I hope you'll come over and sit a spell.
As the host I get to choose the conversation topic of the day. It may seem a little serious, but after spending a virtual day with no cares in a dream spot last Monday, I think we can handle it. And I think there are some of you out there who can still have a little fun with it.
So, let's talk about
kids and adults... I think there are some things I wish kids knew about grown ups.
I spend one morning each week helping in Fashionista's 5th grade classroom. She has a fabulous teacher who has a way of getting the kids excited about education. From brains to fractions, this lady can sell it.
One day as I was correcting math papers I asked her a question I had about one of their worksheets. I wasn't sure if I should mark something wrong, it was so close to being correct. She looked it over and said, "Oh, darn it, we'll have to mark it wrong." She felt sincerely sorry that they got it wrong. The empathy and compassion I felt from her was amazing and that's when I realized that this teacher really cares about how her students do in school. I wish I had known that when I was a kid.
That got me thinking. What are some things I wish my kids understood about me? Like:
...I don't feel any different on the inside than I felt when I was younger.
...I've never been a parent before and I'm learning as I go, doing the best I can.
...I've been where they are right now, I really do have some of the answers.
...The adults in their lives care about them. We are trying to help them succeed, not waiting to see them fail.
...When they mess up we are sorry for their pain and want to help it get better. Remember when a kiss made the tears go away?
What do you wish kids knew about grown ups? Be serious or funny... I'm interested in hearing your thoughts!
And if you'd like to host the Cafe one week, please email us at:theblogcafe@yahoo.com
We'll get you on the list and give you a hosting date!